It appears many Mail users are having authentication problems in which they are prompted for the username and password every time a message is sent (either manually ...
I'm not sure I understand the pertinent details of your post, but if you are using AOL as your ISP, this is why your e-mail receives the suffex reflecting the AOL mail server (SMTP).
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